Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Plans

"For I know the plans that I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart."- Jer. 29:11-13

"I know the plans that I have for you" versus "I know the plans that I have scheduled in my planner". Last week taught me that there is a vast difference between the two. The best of planning on my part may not always line up with the best God has for me.

My schedule for last week:
~Monday- skating lessons for Brooke from 2:30-4:45
~Tuesday- skating at 2:15
~Wednesday- Mom's group & errands
~Thursday- Women's study, grocery & errands
~Friday- prepare meal for ADDICT ministries

God's schedule for last week:
~Monday- skating 2:30-4:00
~Tuesday- no skating
~Wednesday- Mom's group and emergency room
~Thursday- Emergency room and surgery
~Friday- home & emotionally spent

Monday, Brooke was skating when she fell on the ice and broke her chin open. We decided to try a butterfly bandage rather than stitches. It turned out to be the right decision, although I am the most deficient in the medical aspect of mothering. I hate, hate, hate the idea that my kids might be in pain. I couldn't even watch when they would get their immunizations. Anyway, that pretty much ended skating for that day and it canceled skating for the next day. Her heart was broken because that was the last skating opportunity until June. (They take the ice off for soccer.)

Wednesday morning I went to Mom's group and was almost home when I got a phone call that Colin hurt his hand at work and they were taking him by squad to the hospital. I drove to the farm and got there in time to ride in the ambulance with him to Upper Valley. He was changing a tire on a trailer when the jack slipped out. The trailer fell on his right hand causing the u-bolt that secures the axle to go completely through his hand about 3/4" below the knuckle on the index finger. He yelled for help while jacking the trailer up with his left hand. (He's my hero!)

After taking xrays, Upper Valley wanted him to go to the Hand & Orthopedic Center at Southview Hospital, so they took him by transport to the ER there. I did very well staying with him the whole time until they needed to numb his hand to cleanse and sanitize the hole where the bolt went through. Jerald got to hold his hand for that one.

The xray showed his knuckle in 4-5 pieces and tendon damage to his index finger. After a MOST miserable night in the ER (the hospital had NO available rooms), they took him for surgery Thursday at noon and he had surgery at 3:00p. The surgeon came out at 4:30 and said they were able to use pins and put the knuckle back together. Here's the miraculous part: all the doctors and the surgeon who looked at the xray said he had tendon damage and if they couldn't repair it, they would have to take a tendon from his wrist and graft it in. After the surgery, the surgeon told us there was no tendon damage. Do I believe in the power of prayer? Absolutely!!

We were back home by 5p Thursday night. Friday, I was emotionally and physically exhausted! We were able to keep the pain controlled with Percocet. Now we are looking at about 6 weeks of occupational therapy twice a week. Yesterday was his first appointment. They removed the surgical dressing, cleaned the hand really well and created a less burdensome splint.

Colin has been the best patient a mom could ask for. He's very undemanding, very patient with me, extremely grateful for everything and anything I do. I have actually enjoyed serving him in this way.

My mom (bless her) fixed my food for the Friday night meal.

Right in the middle of all this, Adam & Heidi got engaged and will be getting married August 1st.

AND, we are taking Nicole to CA in 2 weeks to visit Azusa Pacific University in LA.

This week, as I created my schedule, I did so with a little less boldness and more prayer. I do not know what my life will be like tomorrow. If the LORD wills, I will live and also do this or that. (James 4:14 & 15) I'm trying to appreciate today and the blessings it holds.

I'm reminded every day of Proverbs 19:21- "Many are the plans in a man's heart, but the counsel of the LORD, it will stand".

8 comments:

Rod and Sara said...

just wanted to let you know we are praying.

JanAl said...

For me, when my plans turn to chaos, it is a reminder that God is, and will always be, in control.
Amen, to the verses that you used.
Praying for you and family.......

Anonymous said...

i have been praying, but so glad to hear the full story. i can't believe therapy begins already! marissa just started hers on monday!

i'll be praying for continued and complete healing.

and congratulations on the addition of a daughter!

~~anna~~ said...

I started reading this to Bob. As soon as I read "his knuckle in 4-5 pieces and tendon damage to his index finger", Bob said "That will be a permanent disability". Then as I read on, we were astonished and excited to hear that the tendon was not damaged.
Praise the LORD for ALL that He does for us and our loved ones!
Will be praying for you and Colin...

lisa said...

I've been keeping you in my prayers as I watched your week unfold. Somehow I just KNEW it wasn't what you'd planned! Sigh. Why did we think life was going to be so easy once our children were out of diapers? Bigger kids=more time on my knees!

Will continue to pray for you all as your summer unfolds with additions and subtractions to your family unit. Each stage has its blessings! Seeing my 'children' become spouses and on their own has been really neat and something I would never have thought could be so rewarding!

Wish we had time to get together..
Lisa

Charity said...

You all have been in our thoughts and prayers a lot this past week - it was sweet to read about "small" miracles in the midst of the chaos, and I also really appreciated the Scriptures you put down. His thoughts & ways are higher than ours . . .

(I'm thinking emergency rooms must just be universally miserable!)

Chris said...

Wow. I guess you are human after all. You always seem to have everything so together. Now, I can see you are just one of us, getting through the daily trials, sometimes a little shaken. That is why we are all here for you. To lift you up in prayer and support you during those times. That's what you do for me......

~~anna~~ said...

So, how is the patient doing? and how is the caregiver doing? Praying for you!